A Chequer-Board of Nights and Days

Clever, Cheeky Little . . .

Posted by Pejman Yousefzadeh on Sun Jul 01, 2007 at 12:51:38 AM EST

Children begin lying at--wait for it!--6 months of age:

Whether lying about raiding the biscuit tin or denying they broke a toy, all children try to mislead their parents at some time. Yet it now appears that babies learn to deceive from a far younger age than anyone previously suspected.

Behavioural experts have found that infants begin to lie from as young as six months. Simple fibs help to train them for more complex deceptions in later life.

Until now, psychologists had thought the developing brains were not capable of the difficult art of lying until four years old.

Following studies of more than 50 children and interviews with parents, Dr Vasudevi Reddy, of the University of Portsmouth's psychology department, says she has identified seven categories of deception used between six months and three-years-old.

Infants quickly learnt that using tactics such as fake crying and pretend laughing could win them attention. By eight months, more difficult deceptions became apparent, such as concealing forbidden activities or trying to distract parents' attention.

By the age of two, toddlers could use far more devious techniques, such as bluffing when threatened with a punishment.

Dr Reddy said: "Fake crying is one of the earliest forms of deception to emerge, and infants use it to get attention even though nothing is wrong. You can tell, as they will then pause while they wait to hear if their mother is responding, before crying again.

I can hear the reaction now. "But not my child! He/she is so unbearably good that not even the cherubim and/or seraphim could possibly measure up!"

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by Wacky Hermit on Mon Jul 02, 2007 at 10:08:47 AM EST

I think the more common parental reaction would be relief that now people might actually believe them when they say their kid is just crying to get attention.
Every time I've said something like that, it's everyone else who comes back with "but they're just babies... you can't spoil them... they're just not ready yet..."  No one believes you (or at least no one will admit to believing you) when you think your child might have a motive for their behavior.   Parents secretly believe that their kids are capable of deception at young ages, but it's just not the "party line" and our society is so eager to condemn "bad parenting" (with legal penalties even) that parents feel they have to toe the party line in public.



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